I’m a bit stressed.
I am moving into my dorm at Miami University in exactly a week. And yeah it’s stressing to say goodbye to everyone and prepare for a completely different life three hours from home, but that’s not exactly what’s bothering me.
I want to be an English teacher because, in my eyes, that’s the best job there is. I love reading books and studying poetry and writing and teaching and all of it. And I want to make a difference. More importantly, I believe I can. This year I got to be a student teacher in some classrooms around the area and it only verified that this is what I’m meant to do. And I’m passionate enough to be good at it! I could honestly write an entire post about why this is my dream job, but instead I’ll cut to the chase.
It’s a great job, yes, but do I want to get straight out of college into a career so routine-oriented?
I’d work from August to May, and then use my summers to prepare for the next year. Sure, it’s great when you have a family, I would imagine. And I want to teach in a school much like my high school–a nice suburb with a good community and intelligent, inspiring kids (even though you can find those anywhere).
But I don’t want to spend my whole life in the same town, doing the same things, just looking for little pleasures in my life.
I want to travel the world. Return to France and English, and go on adventures in Thailand and Finland and Germany and Luxembourg! I want to live in New York City. I visited when I was a freshman and it’s been on my mind ever since.
But I don’t want to teach there. And even if I did, I can’t imagine that it’d be easy to find a job in the city.
So I’m going to this school for the next four years of my life and I’m going to milk it for everything it’s worth. I’m going to learn everything I possibly can and travel with any group that will take me along. I’m going to leave in 2018 as the most educated, prepared, worldly, leader that I can be.
Which has led to my decision of adding a journalism major.
So far in Miami I will be taking five classes that meet two days a week, practicing with the club tennis team four nights a week, working three nights a week, and auditioning for the orchestra that meets every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday.
It’s all part of my plan. I have two English classes that I’m very excited about and will, therefore, be excited to study. One is just reading and studying works by major American authors and the other is advanced composition, which I’m assuming will help me when writing my own novels. I then have an Educational psychology class that seems interesting and a journalism course that looks very promising. Then I have a random science class that I may need help with but am nonetheless ready to take on. (Plus it’s required for my graduation)
Then tennis is going to help me stay in shape, meet new people, have fun, and help me if I ultimately decide to coach (I’ve definitely been considering it). And I may not even make the orchestra–actually, I probably won’t. But if by some miracle I do it’ll be great to keep up with the cello and help me prepare for if I become a private cello teacher in the future.
And the job is to help me pay for the winter term if I decide to stay or study abroad (fingers crossed for New York City) or simply give me some money to save for the future or pay back my father for everything he’s done for me. And might I add that the hours are very reasonable.
So I’m planning all of this as the excitement grows inside of me to the point where I burst and spill the beans to anyone who will listen. And then this is the response I get:
“Have fun failing out.”
All I want is for one person to be supportive. Supportive without the condescending comments about time-management and heavy workloads. Because maybe I am spreading myself too thin, but let me make that mistake for myself. I’d rather try it all and be forced to quit a few than not try enough and live with regrets.
I understand that this is going to be hard–probably harder than expected–but this is my life! This is all preparation for the life that I will choose after college.
Maybe I’ll be a suburban teacher, maybe I’ll be a tennis coach, maybe I’ll be a journalist, maybe I’ll be an author, maybe I’ll be a cello teacher, maybe I’ll be all of the above! But this is just me trying to prepare for anything and everything and this is me pursuing my passions and following my dreams.
So just stop trying to stop me.
5 thoughts on “Spreading Myself Too Thin”
Do a study abroad if you can. It’s worth it.
And take this for what it’s worth – give yourself time to breathe. Don’t be so busy running from place to place and job to job that you forget to be in the “here and now.” It’s quite fun there, you know.
And finally, the very best luck to you in your new life 🙂
That’s actually really good advice and important to remember. I think being so afraid of missing out has made me take all of this on. And while I’ll stick with my decisions and do everything whole-heartedly, I’ll definitely remember what you said and relax and breathe and just be content every once in a while. Thanks for your comment! 😊
Ahhh, this past year I’ve had people doubt me too and it sucked! Don’t worry, I believe that when your passionate about something, you tend to enjoy it more and things just start to fall into place. I have faith in you!! Keep doing what you’re passionate about! 🙂
Thank you for your comment and kind words of encouragement! It’s good to know I’m not the only one who feels like this sometimes and the reinforcement is always nice. 🙂